BDSM Slave Collar Silver & Black with Small Black Heart Padlock Necklace

$85.00

Shipping to United States: Free

This versatile and discreet chainmail submissive collar is made by hand using jet black and shining silver anodized aluminum rings in a Byzantine weave, with a small polished nickel silver heart shaped padlock closure at the front. The lock is reversible, you can have the heart shaped keyhole showing at the front, or flip it over to reveal the back which has been decorated with a gorgeous black resin and just a hint glitter to catch the light, giving the effect of stars twinkling in the night sky. The lock measures 20 mm, and comes with two keys.

Because it is made with aluminum, the chain is incredibly lightweight & comfortable, great for every day wear, and is easy to maintain with just a little soap and water, just be sure to dry the lock thoroughly afterwards!

If nickel sensitivities are an issue, please let me know and I'd be happy to add a clear coat of resin to the other side of the lock as well at no extra charge!

Shipping from Canada

Processing time

7-10 business days

Estimated shipping times

  • North America : 5 - 8 business days
  • Europe : 6 - 10 business days

I'll do my best to meet these shipping estimates, but can't guarantee them. Actual delivery time will depend on the shipping method you choose.

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I gladly accept returns, exchanges, and cancellations

Just contact me within: 14 days of delivery

Ship items back to me within: 30 days of delivery

  • Custom or personalized orders
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    Jennifer Lowrie
    254 Wilson Dr.
    Milton, ON L9T 3K2
    Canada

    Frequently Asked Questions

    What’s the best way to measure my neck?

    Using a regular tape measure, have the two ends meet exactly where you’d like the lock to sit. If you happen to fall between sizes, go up to the next even number. And that’s it! Easy peasy :)

    Can I wear my collar 24/7, even in the shower?

    Yes! I make all my collars suitable for 24/7 wear; I use anodized aluminum for the chains because it’s hypoallergenic, doesn’t rust or tarnish, and can be cleaned easily with soap and water. Just be sure to use the polishing cloth included with your order to polish up the lock regularly, and dry it thoroughly after a shower - especially around the edges of the lock where water can seep under the enamel. Ideally though, taking it off for showering and sleeping will help increase its life span significantly. Generally speaking, after about 6 months or so, the lock would need replacing with 24/7 wear, but can last years if it’s removed at shower & bed time.

    Care instructions

    Use the polishing cloth that’s included with your order to keep the lock looking shiny and new, and the chain cleans up easily with just a bit of soap and water.

    Gift wrapping and packaging

    Since I know most collars are given as gifts, your collar will arrive already gift boxed with a color coordinated box and tissue paper to keep it safe during transit. No invoice or packing slip will be included unless requested. Note cards for special messages are also available upon request :)

    This is the second collar I have ordered from Jen. I've also received a collar made by Jen from someone else. Each of the collars has been excellent quality. Lightweight, durable, and care was taken while making them. I work outdoors, and the collar I wore before was in the sun and used 24/7. I had no color fade from the jump rings. I got a nice tan line from it! Haha! As for this particular collar I ordered, it is just beautiful. The size of the lock fits perfectly with the size of the chain weave. I asked for a coat of resin on the back as well and got that. Shipping was fantastic. Got it earlier than I expected. As always, she is just delightful to buy from, and I hope to order more from her in the future. Definitely recommend getting yourself or someone else something from her shop. With proper care, her pieces last!


    An outstanding day collar, exquisitely and elegant. She is thrilled to wear it.


    This is a beautiful piece. And it is much much lighter than you would expect for this type of chain. Thank you so much.


    When I ordered mine I accidentally got a size way too small, I contacted the seller right away and she honestly couldn't have been any nicer, was super helpful and showed me how so order the right size once I sent it back and she could fix it, I would totally order again and definitely recommend xx


    Beautiful necklace, very well made. My Puppy loves it a lot!


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