Mens Silver and Grey Submissive BDSM Collar Chainmail Necklace with Padlock

$70.00

Shipping to United States: Free

If simplicity is more your style, this understated day collar is the one for you! Bright silver anodized aluminum rings are subtly contrasted with anodized aluminum rings in steely gunmetal gray for a sophisticated, neutral look that compliments any outfit. The collar closes in front with a small nickel silver padlock that has been polished to a beautiful mirror-like finish. This is a working padlock, so be sure to keep a key handy at all times as there is no other clasp, so the collar can't be removed without it.

Anodized aluminum is a great choice for jewelry for several reasons:
1. It's hypoallergenic! Excellent for those with allergies or metal sensitivities*,
2. It's INCREDIBLY lightweight! A 22" chain weighs just 35 grams!
3. It's super easy to care for! Just a little soap and water cleans it right up - wear it in the shower and kill two birds with one stone!

*Please keep in mind the lock has a nickel finish and therefore is NOT hypoallergenic! However, you can get a protective clear enamel coating added to both sides of the lock for just $15 more here: https://www.brainofjen.com/listing/210196856/heart-lock-with-clear-resin-coating

If you have any questions or would like to inquire about a custom collar, feel free to reach out to me anytime via the "Ask a question" button above, or by email at brainofjen [!at] gmail.com.

Shipping from Canada

Processing time

7-10 business days

Estimated shipping times

  • North America : 5 - 8 business days
  • Europe : 6 - 10 business days

I'll do my best to meet these shipping estimates, but can't guarantee them. Actual delivery time will depend on the shipping method you choose.

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I gladly accept returns, exchanges, and cancellations

Just contact me within: 14 days of delivery

Ship items back to me within: 30 days of delivery

  • Custom or personalized orders
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    Jennifer Lowrie
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    Canada

    Frequently Asked Questions

    What’s the best way to measure my neck?

    Using a regular tape measure, have the two ends meet exactly where you’d like the lock to sit. If you happen to fall between sizes, go up to the next even number. And that’s it! Easy peasy :)

    Can I wear my collar 24/7, even in the shower?

    Yes! I make all my collars suitable for 24/7 wear; I use anodized aluminum for the chains because it’s hypoallergenic, doesn’t rust or tarnish, and can be cleaned easily with soap and water. Just be sure to use the polishing cloth included with your order to polish up the lock regularly, and dry it thoroughly after a shower - especially around the edges of the lock where water can seep under the enamel. Ideally though, taking it off for showering and sleeping will help increase its life span significantly. Generally speaking, after about 6 months or so, the lock would need replacing with 24/7 wear, but can last years if it’s removed at shower & bed time.

    Care instructions

    Use the polishing cloth that’s included with your order to keep the lock looking shiny and new, and the chain cleans up easily with just a bit of soap and water.

    Gift wrapping and packaging

    Since I know most collars are given as gifts, your collar will arrive already gift boxed with a color coordinated box and tissue paper to keep it safe during transit. No invoice or packing slip will be included unless requested. Note cards for special messages are also available upon request :)

    Reviews (2)

    Average:

    me and my boyfriend have bought a few of these over the years, and they're always amazing quality and look stunning. thank you for your awesome work and friendly customer service


    Amazing and accommodating as always :) absolutely beautiful collar and great customer service


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